{"id":118,"date":"2018-06-18T03:47:26","date_gmt":"2018-06-18T03:47:26","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/mariannaklebanov.com\/blog\/?p=118"},"modified":"2018-06-18T03:47:26","modified_gmt":"2018-06-18T03:47:26","slug":"blame","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/mariannaklebanov.com\/blog\/2018\/06\/18\/blame\/","title":{"rendered":"Blame"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>July 23, 2009<\/p>\n<div class=\"entry post-91 post type-post status-publish format-standard hentry category-july-2009 tag-child-abuse tag-children tag-childrens-rights tag-corporal-punishment tag-parenting tag-physical-abuse tag-spanking tag-violence\">\n<div class=\"post-content\">\n<p>Here is a story of child abuse out of Salem, Oregon.<\/p>\n<p>Two parents have been arrested and accused of multiple counts of child abuse against their children, ages 15, 14, 13, 11, 10, and 9, including 6 counts of second-degree Assault, 6 counts of first-degree Criminal Mistreatment, 6 counts of Unlawful use of a Weapon and 6 counts of Coercion.<\/p>\n<p>The children were taken into protective custody, as was\u00a0the\u00a0parents\u2019\u00a0six-day-old\u00a0infant, after the three older children called 911 to report abuse.\u00a0 Sheriff\u2019s deputies found significant evidence of abuse on the children.<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-94\" title=\"Salem, Oregon, Parents Accused of Child Abuse, 7-22-09\" src=\"https:\/\/inaworldofhurt.files.wordpress.com\/2009\/07\/salemoregonchildabuse7-22-09.jpg?w=490\" sizes=\"(max-width: 350px) 100vw, 350px\" srcset=\"https:\/\/inaworldofhurt.files.wordpress.com\/2009\/07\/salemoregonchildabuse7-22-09.jpg 350w, https:\/\/inaworldofhurt.files.wordpress.com\/2009\/07\/salemoregonchildabuse7-22-09.jpg?w=150 150w, https:\/\/inaworldofhurt.files.wordpress.com\/2009\/07\/salemoregonchildabuse7-22-09.jpg?w=300 300w\" alt=\"Salem, Oregon, Parents Accused of Child Abuse, 7-22-09\" data-attachment-id=\"94\" data-permalink=\"https:\/\/inaworldofhurt.wordpress.com\/2009\/07\/23\/blame\/salemoregonchildabuse7-22-09\/\" data-orig-file=\"https:\/\/inaworldofhurt.files.wordpress.com\/2009\/07\/salemoregonchildabuse7-22-09.jpg?w=490\" data-orig-size=\"350,218\" data-comments-opened=\"1\" data-image-meta=\"{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;}\" data-image-title=\"Salem, Oregon, Parents Accused of Child Abuse, 7-22-09\" data-image-description=\"\" data-medium-file=\"https:\/\/inaworldofhurt.files.wordpress.com\/2009\/07\/salemoregonchildabuse7-22-09.jpg?w=490?w=300\" data-large-file=\"https:\/\/inaworldofhurt.files.wordpress.com\/2009\/07\/salemoregonchildabuse7-22-09.jpg?w=490?w=350\" \/><\/p>\n<p>What is most\u00a0striking to me about this online newpaper article are the comments posted by readers of the article. Read them at this link:\u00a0<a title=\"Two Adults Arrested in Salem on Multiple Counts of Child Abuse\" href=\"http:\/\/www.salem-news.com\/articles\/july222009\/parents_arrested_7-22-09.php\">Two Adults Arrested in Salem on Multiple Counts of Child Abuse, Salem-News.com, July 22, 2009<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>Apparently, nearly everyone who read the story was certain that the children were lying, that they were evil, and that they cruelly reported their parents just to\u00a0avoid the spankings they deserve. Instead of sympathizing with the children or even hoping the parents could get some proper counseling, these multiple readers sympathized with the parents. Many of them cited bible verses indicating that children need to be disciplined with violence.<\/p>\n<p>This is a very common classic method of childrearing. Children are to blame, children are to be hurt because they are to blame, and children need to keep quiet about it to protect the parents\u2019 reputation.<\/p>\n<p>Here are bible verses quoted by a reader commenting on an article on this situation in another online paper (<a href=\"http:\/\/www.oregonlive.com\/news\/index.ssf\/2009\/07\/salem_parents_are_accused_of_c.html\">Salem Parents are Accused of Child Abuse, OregonLive.com, July 22, 2009<\/a>):<\/p>\n<blockquote><p><em>Proverbs 13:24 He who spares his rod hates his son,<br \/>\nBut he who loves him disciplines him promptly.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>Proverbs 19:18 Chasten your son while there is hope,<br \/>\nAnd do not set your heart on his destruction.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>Proverbs 22:15 Foolishness is bound up in the heart of a child;<br \/>\nThe rod of correction will drive it far from him.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>Proverbs 23:13 Do not withhold correction from a child,<br \/>\nFor if you beat him with a rod, he will not die.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>Proverbs 23:14 You shall beat him with a rod,<br \/>\nAnd deliver his soul from hell.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>Proverbs 29:15 The rod and rebuke give wisdom,<br \/>\nBut a child left to himself brings shame to his mother<\/em><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>Despite all this, I am not singling out Christianity as the only religion that traditionally supports child abuse or mistreatment. In fact, I don\u2019t know of a single culture that has been immune from child mistreatment through history.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"entry post-86 post type-post status-publish format-standard hentry category-july-2009 tag-child-abuse tag-ptsd tag-triggers\">\n<div class=\"post-meta\"><\/div>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>July 23, 2009 Here is a story of child abuse out of Salem, Oregon. 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